The children are the ones affected if both parents decide to file a divorce. This situation triggers inappropriate behaviors on the part of the child. He may develop negative feelings and conduct towards his family. Children may also have difficulties in school during this time. If you are a parent going through a divorce process, you may need to think about how it can be easier for your children to handle the situation. A right solution for an amicable separation for both parents is to sit down and talk with a mediator.